How to be enough, in which Barbie and Ken run with the wolves (sort of)

Hello dear readers, It’s been a while. I never published the last blog post I wrote way back when because fact-checking revealed something about the author that I’ve been struggling to reconcile. Then, the Barbie movie brought me back. I know, I know—this is a surprise because I seldom played with dolls as a kid, […]

How to Love the Vulva and Become Cliterate

Dear Readers, Getting in touch with our own bodies and possibly someone else’s too can seem like a little too much to ask.  If you are a woman and have ever wondered what the big deal is about sex, or if you are a partner who has ever wondered why women fake orgasms or are […]

How To Untangle the Chaos of Adolescence with Girls

Hello Readers. Today I take a closer look at “Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood” by Lisa Damour.  This is a book written in support of the well-being of adolescent girls. It is, however, directed at the adults who live and work with them. Here I look at what’s good about […]

How to Slay Giants and Live an Inspired Life

Hello Dear Readers, Today we delve into a book about the world’s best-selling and most widely distributed book: the Bible.  Rachel Held Evans addresses Inspired: Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible Again to: People with an Evangelical background who find themselves navigating the great chasm between Scripture as they learned it and […]

How to Hold a Grudge and Transform Resentment into Contentment

This week’s review is about a controversial topic; the possibility of going from resentment to contentment by holding onto all your grudges! This is the promise that Sophie Hannah makes with her book, How to Hold a Grudge. Does she make good on the promise? As usual, I will be looking at what’s good, what’s […]

How to write into real life

Hello Dear Readers.  For this week’s review I re-read Bird by Bird:  Some Instructions on Writing and Life by Anne Lamott.  It is a must read for writers, and indeed for anyone interested in understanding themselves and the human condition.  There are lots of accessible and practical writing tips for fiction and non-fiction writers alike.  […]

How to Negotiate for Life

Hello Readers!  Today I discuss the book, Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if your life depended on it.  The book is part how-to and part adventure short-stories.  It’s these stories that really drew me in, since they show how, through trial and error, the FBI learned the techniques they use, and how the skills […]

How To Raise Feminist Children

Hello Readers! Today I discuss a little book called Dear Ijeawele: A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions. This review looks at the good, the bad and the how-to of implementing Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s suggestions for how to empower a daughter to become a strong, independent woman.  It is a start to an urgently needed conversation […]