Relating

All kinds of relationships and relating issues.

How to Love the Vulva and Become Cliterate

Dear Readers, Getting in touch with our own bodies and possibly someone else’s too can seem like a little too much to ask.  If you are a woman and have ever wondered what the big deal is about sex, or if you are a partner who has ever wondered why women fake orgasms or are […]

How To Untangle the Chaos of Adolescence with Girls

Hello Readers. Today I take a closer look at “Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood” by Lisa Damour.  This is a book written in support of the well-being of adolescent girls. It is, however, directed at the adults who live and work with them. Here I look at what’s good about […]

How to Hold a Grudge and Transform Resentment into Contentment

This week’s review is about a controversial topic; the possibility of going from resentment to contentment by holding onto all your grudges! This is the promise that Sophie Hannah makes with her book, How to Hold a Grudge. Does she make good on the promise? As usual, I will be looking at what’s good, what’s […]

How to Negotiate for Life

Hello Readers!  Today I discuss the book, Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as if your life depended on it.  The book is part how-to and part adventure short-stories.  It’s these stories that really drew me in, since they show how, through trial and error, the FBI learned the techniques they use, and how the skills […]

How To Raise Feminist Children

Hello Readers! Today I discuss a little book called Dear Ijeawele: A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions. This review looks at the good, the bad and the how-to of implementing Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s suggestions for how to empower a daughter to become a strong, independent woman.  It is a start to an urgently needed conversation […]